Decision deciding?

There are no solutions, only trade offs.

Life used to be simpler ... Are you sure?

I used to think life used to be simple but now complicated. I don't think that anymore, I think life always was complicated but it was simple in our options how to deal with it.
Simple doesn't necessarily mean easy.

The opposite of love and fear is the opposite of what you think

People think the opposite of love is hate... It's not because in order to hate there must be some part which cares enough to hate. Hate is the antidote to love but not the opposite. The opposite to love is apathy.

If you agree with that line of thinking, what's the opposite of fear? It's not excitement, the body processes both this emotions very similarly.

I think the opposite of fear is boredom.

Something I'm going to think about more.

Powerful life motto

Don't believe everything you think.

Do You Think You Know?

"It's easy to know what you think, until you think about what everyone else is thinking."
S. Phelps

I know what I don't want to feel like!

We may not know how we want to feel, but often we do know how we don't want to feel! Maybe that's why we don't chase love and happiness,  maybe that's why we are scared and have fear of failure or rejection, maybe it's easier to know what we don't want to feel so we act on what we know,  many would rather be unhappy than uncertain

Sexual Passion Forever

If being in the moment is the key to happiness,  then maybe that's why we like novel or new experiences - the situation demands our undivided attention, we almost don't have a choice.
Maybe that's why the passion goes out of relationships over time...  At the start the situation demands all of ourself, but it doesn't as time goes on... 
SLLS
STOP LOOK LISTEN SMELL... get back into the now, be in the now,  enjoy the now.

Nothing in life is as important as you think it is when you are thinking about it.

Nothing in life is as important as you think it is when you are thinking about it. This illusion applies to both delights and disappointments: You won’t be as excited about getting something you want once you get it, because once you get it, you will have it, and your attention will shift to other things.