The cost of humility
https://youtube.com/shorts/gWrgQIThVBA?si=evzVxIJWQCz5lwJg
The problem is this only works if you've got a baseline of acceptance from inside and out. You can't put that full load on someone who doesn't have the strength to carry that - All men were once children. Some did not have an environment to establish this baseline. A wild animal will attack if corned because it's in their nature. Hurting people hurt people. (If you have the capacity) Lift up others even if they can't lift back.