Clean a mind?

You know how we see others with 'problems' or things we think they're doing 'wrong' do we ever stop to think that they are already aware? There's some belief that 'if I told them, they would see and change and fix... maybe these people actually already know but they can't do anything about it or it's too hard. You know all those times you intended to clean a room or house or kitchen... if that's hard to clean a room when you should, how hard is to clean a mind?

Regret a decision?

If you made a past choice which didn't work out - if you made the choice with all your knowledge at your disposal, it wasn't a foolish choice.

Do you agree when you know you're wrong?

There are so many people concerned about defending and protecting their feelings that we rarely stop to think that we might already agree with them.
S. Phelps

If someone criticised you,  had you actually already throught the same thing? Why is it OK for us to be hard on ourselves then when someone else says aloud what we think,  we defend ourselves instinctively.

How do we choose when we have no understanding?

In the absence of any other information, humans tend to estimate the value of something by gauging the demand for it.

The Paradox of Desire

Emotion of want clouds the plan of how
S. Phelps 2016