If you don't know who to believe, read this.

The man who knows he's right goes to great lengths to prove it. a man who is wrong goes to great lengths to discredit it.
S. Phelps

Real life inspired by fiction

Ted of how I met your mother
When he was a kid,  a kid knocked down his skyscraper...  Then the mean boss does the same as an adult...

The story of today could be the same as when they were a kid,  or a story you've played out in your head which you fear

Under Attack? Or Friendly Fire?

There's a difference between being attacked/blamed for something and someone grieving aloud/expressing their frustration and anguish
S. Phelps

Creativity is...

My definition...

Creativity means to conclude a notion or practically create something which is unique,  valued or appreciated.

Is Escape Bad?

Sometimes you need to escape the world in order to gain the strength to face it.
- S. Phelps

The Paradox of Desire

Emotion of want clouds the plan of how
S. Phelps 2016

Make it about you by not making it about you

Take a breath and acknowledge that 95% of what someone else does has absolutely nothing to do with you. Yes--even if you feel that they've talked about you, misused you or done you other wrongs, still their main concern isnot you. It's them. Trust this: realizing that other people with no "investment" in you also have no "interest" in you--and that their activity probably has nothing to do with you--is a big part of forgiving and being less paranoid. So spend extra time with this one idea:"Convince yourself that the other person is pretty ignorant when it comes to you and your feelings--and so, you need not worry about them!"