Stop trying to have it all with no costs - it fucks with what you have

Bad luck occurs when you want to counteractive forces to give you only their positives and neither of their negatives.

Anger tells us something is wrong.

Not all anger should be suppressed,  not all anger should be hidden.

Where stupid is actually smart

If someone says something so stupid it leaves us speechless/bemused, aren't we the stupid one,  just with extra range because of the fact we don't understand.

Sick cycle carousel

I lied to be the victim, the truth would have been easier and everyone would be blameless and no ill effects would be felt,  is it revenge, is it something to do with my own sense of injustice and making the injustice obvious? And then, it all washes away,  the kind word, the patient gesture, the lovely manner...  Everything is fine again, injustice is just a dream until you sleep then wake again, how do you break the cycle? By first acknowledging there is a cycle

Why we are angry with God?

We’ve long known that people can get angry at God but a 2013 study in Psychology of Religion andSpirituality (Grubbs, Exline, & Campbell, 2013) tells us who is most likely to do so. The authors found that anger at God was predicted by psychologicalentitlement—the belief that one deserves more than others. The authors argue that those feelings of deservingness lead to more intense perceptions of having been wronged when individuals don’t get what they want.