Unhappiness comes from comparison of others. When you are compared to others you will lose, and so will they, there's always someone with a skill that's better than yours and you'll always have a skill that's better than there's. We just have to be the best person we can be and believe and hope that's enough for ourselves and others.
If disclosure beings connection, then creating things you wouldn't disclose to others with someone must bring an even deeper connection.
Secrets withheld from one another create isolation.
A secret world that's a bit of a fantasy can be exciting, personal and connecting... But when you watch someone else do that it brings distance and loneliness.
All any of us want is to give and receive love unconditionally and feel safe to do so.
