How to get heard!

"Tell them what they want to hear, then they'll listen to what you have to say"
Sam Phelps Feb 2016

Sometimes The Lie Is Prettier

It's hard to replace a simple concept with a difficult or abstract one, even if they are right and the simple concept is wrong

The truth and the perception

Just because I spelt a word wrong,  doesn't mean I don't know how to spell it,  and just because I spelt it right doesn't mean I know how to spell it.

The arrow of time - men wanting to reverse it.

http://theage.com.au/national/supporters-of-antiwoman-group-return-of-kings-to-meet-in-sydney-20160201-gmikrh.html

It's not even worth finishing reading,  I get it, they want it to be like it was in a primitive society...  The arrow of time means that can't happen unless we move forward to some fallout/instability where it's more about physical strength than anything else. It's OK to have opinions, it's not if you are breaking the laws and inflicting upon others who didn't choose.

The career dating dance

A company rejecting you for being 'overqualified' is like saying 'that girl is too hot for me so I'll say no even though she wants me' Sure you probably won't grow old together, and yeah she'll probably realise she can do better but it will be amazing while it lasts!

Why girls like men with money and it's not the reason you think

Why do many girls like men money?

On the surface this seems like a stupid question...  But really think about it,  why? Well because they want nice things probably,  what about freedom? Most likely, security? For sure.

If you subscribe to the theory of everything revolves around survival and legacy,  then a partner with money can provide both.  A large part of seeking out a mate is getting the feeling of being safe and secure, to feel like your survival is not under threat,  in other words "if you have money, I feel safe with you". You keep seeing the stat that women enjoy sex more with a man who is rich. Well when your not anxious or stressed about tomorrow's survival, it helps you focus on enjoying yourself.

How to protect yourself from mental attacks.

The hostility towards someone else stems from fear. Defending yourself won't work,  making them feel better may not and definitely won't in the long term. It's an individual security issue and they are trying to control the situation and make that fear go away.  Learn to be brave,  and learn to spot someone who isn't.  When you learn to do that, you will not take attacks as personal and prevent unconscious attacks on others.