Yes is best?

It's easy to like someone who always says yes... It's hard to respect someone who always says yes.

Hard Work is Meaningless Unless...

Thomas Merton, "People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall."

My feelings connected to your actions

Change the action of someone will change the feeling,  but what if we could change our action to change the feeling,  wouldn't you get the same result? So why do we want to change other things in people to change our feeling when there is other ways?