In the end, some partners feel that their problems will solve themselves in due time, or that their problems are “too small” to seek therapy for. Showing that time doesn’t necessarily heal all wounds, the median duration of a marriage ending in divorce in Australia was recorded at 12.2 years in 2011, with nearly 50,000 divorces being granted in the same year.
“It isn’t a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” — Friedrich Nietzsche
How long will yours last? Why? What will you do about it? Can you do something about it before you even start the relationship?
Maybe being truthful to yourself and about yourself, being honest and acting on it. Easier said than done. Don't be afraid of someone rejecting you for you in the first few dates, because if you show them someone you're not, they'll still reject you, just a much longer time later.
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