..."In fact, some evolutionary psychologists have argued that throughout human history, dominance has been more important than attractiveness for men’s mating success."...
So this attractive notion the West has created, men have bought into the lie...
The aim isn't to be attractive (although it's not discouraged) it's to show dominance, give the impression or perception (not necessarily actual dominance)
Let's call it 'signaling'.
"Care about me first, then care about my body."
Or
"desire me first, then desire my body"
A thought I had about what women may want?
If being in the moment is the key to happiness, then maybe that's why we like novel or new experiences - the situation demands our undivided attention, we almost don't have a choice.
Maybe that's why the passion goes out of relationships over time... At the start the situation demands all of ourself, but it doesn't as time goes on...
SLLS
STOP LOOK LISTEN SMELL... get back into the now, be in the now, enjoy the now.
