What's going on when people fight, argue and disagree? I've noticed for years how many people are both right in an argument... how is that possible, how can we all be fighting over the same thing and yet all be right?
Or flip it around, the same people who could be both right are also both wrong... How can this be?
Because our fight is governed and justified by the parameters we set out for ourselves.
Here are those parameters.
There are only two platforms of communication:
1 Discussion
2 Debate
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These are filtered through four 'according to you' belief systems:
1 The world how it is (objectively)
2 The world how you think it ought to be
3 The world not being understood
4 The world 'how it is' but it just ain't so (perception ignoring objective reality).
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All arguments topics come down to these four categories:
1 My world (what I know and see)
2 'The' world ('facts')
3 Equality (the game today)
4 Equity (the game today, yesterday and tomorrow)
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These are personalised by three main feelings:
1 Why can't you be more like me?
2 Why can't you be more like what I understand?
3 Why can't you understand my pain?
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All motivations stem back to a deep original source...
1 Survival (including resources, status quo and power)
And/or
2 Legacy (including extra resources sex, extra power and purpose)
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