Tuesday, 30 June 2015

Rape culture, let's teach boys to be good men!

http://www.upworthy.com/how-7-things-that-have-nothing-to-do-with-rape-perfectly-illustrate-the-concept-of-consent?c=huf1

Not 'instead' but focus on teaching,  absolutely! (there will always be evil people no matter what) 
There's two levels though,  education which is rational and feelings which sometimes aren't...  Both need to be addressed and if you 'Bible bash' (figure of speech) you neglect the feeling competent,  and if history tells us anything,  feelings will win out... Asexuals don't have sex because they don't feel like it...  Men who have stronger desires than respect/accountability,  evil things happen (they justify to not feel so evil)...  It'll take good men to teach boys, and women to guide good men,  not hatred. I'm so sorry if a man did something awful,  no one should have to go through that and understandably you could be angry at the entire gender. Please teach us with the future of a better world in mind who good men can be trusted

Wednesday, 17 June 2015

Loss/Pain sliding scale

Why is it, when we invest a lot of time and effort into something and it fails/taken away straight away,  it gives us incredible pain while the same investment but it fails a long time after you stopped the effort,  it doesn't seem so bad?

Monday, 15 June 2015

Saturday, 6 June 2015