Sunday, 5 November 2023

Does the machine lead the artist or does the artist lead the machine?

Does the machine lead the artist or does the artist lead the machine?

When the artist has clarity and taste, the artist leads the machine.


Do you understand what "good" music sounds like?

Do you understand what "good" poetry looks like?

Do you understand what "good" food tastes like?

Do you understand what "good" movies, books, paintings, comics etc are?


It was never about if you could, it was always about does it make you feel? Regular people can't hear, see, taste the difference but they can feel the difference.

Many times AI generations aren't wrong, but it's not quite right, until clarity and taste are applied by the creative.

Thursday, 2 November 2023

It's just simply simple

When people say simple, what they really mean is - to them - the focus is simple but the scope may not actually be.

Beware of the word "just" mid sentence of someone asking you to do something. Summarising a task simply doesn't make the task simple.

Wednesday, 1 November 2023

Next level down from gaslighting?

 Don't make me pretend.


You can pretend but don't be shocked if I don't want to follow you or even listen to you.

Tuesday, 31 October 2023

Why is the internet so mean?

Gurinder - I suspect many are abusive online because they are lonely, and half-consciously hope you’ll respond to their insults by fighting with them, because that would be a validating acknowledgement of their existence. To those desperate for recognition, even a slap can feel like a caress.


Me. That's what happens with many children. Attention and acknowledgment to them is more important than being ignored. Even at the cost of negative attention and negative outcomes. Natural selection and evolution  facilitated this. Imagine children constantly going on their own, disconnecting from core people. They know unconsciously it's a matter of survival.

Sunday, 29 October 2023

What's dumb today might have been smart in the past

 Don't think the past is stupid based on standards today. Many things had a reason to be that way back then and just because you don't see it nor care doesn't change the fact.


https://youtube.com/shorts/86aeL6xY0PQ?si=GzZ4vZY9KT_pwHgr


One day people will judge your past based on the standards of that day too.

Some jobs you need to give more than you're paid

 My first Phelps thought spoken aloud and converted into text, then synthesized into something more readable worthy.


Summary: The concept revolves around the notion of delayed gratification in career paths like modeling or sports. These fields require a substantial investment of time, effort, and sometimes money, with no immediate return. This trade-off exists because of the perceived benefits, be they glamour, creativity, or flexibility. The same dynamic extends to other industries as well. The attractiveness of a job, even if only from an outsider's perspective, often demands extra, unpaid work or preparation.


In careers like modeling or sports, it's understood that professionals don't simply "show up" to succeed. They invest in their bodies, train rigorously, and often begin without immediate financial reward. This is a form of delayed gratification: enduring a present hardship for a future benefit.

Similarly, in many businesses or industries, the kind of work you do often comes with its own set of trade-offs. If your role is more creative, interesting, or "glamorous," it might not pay as well initially, and will probably require you to continue honing your skills outside of work hours. The allure or external perception of such jobs adds another layer to this dynamic. Jobs that seem enviable from the outside may demand sacrifices that aren't immediately obvious.

People are willing to go through these hardships because they see value in the future rewards—monetary or otherwise—or because the field itself aligns with their interests or provides other intangible benefits like satisfaction or flexibility. 

This unspoken agreement of delayed gratification becomes a path, encouraged by managers and the industry at large, to attain the high levels of skill or proficiency needed for success. It mirrors the world of modeling or sports, where the top 1% might get all the glory, but many work hard even without reaching those heights, fueled by their own sets of motivations.

Invisible dark mother power

Mother dark triad

Judgement

Shame

Bouts of anger


Works better on the typical girl than the typical boy.