Charming is a similar currency to money.
I wonder if we focus on money because it's an observable metric while charming is an hidden metric?
Why do we want money? In part do we can do things, have things, achieve things, but can't being charming and liked also unlock some of those doors?
So what is charming? It's making others feel good about themselves?
Perhaps we can spend a bit more time and energy on making charm than making money?
No one really seems to like their representative officials (for long anyway) yet why do we class ourselves based on a political grading system (Left-Right)?
I've known about this line for a while "we used to laugh at comedians and take our politicians seriously but now we laugh at our politicians and take our comedians seriously"
I couldn't figure out why exactly - hypothesis: ce comedians are (by accident or design) brave, and they need to look deeply at the world for their craft. While significant numbers of politicians aren't brave based on their need for party and constituents acceptance. The culture is also more about how they appear rather than what you know. So one is brave and knowledgeable, the other is afraid and lost in their goals.
A women commented that there's more expected of girls when they're younger. That feels true, but is it?
Hypothesis: Significant numbers of girls become hyperaware at puberty (100,000 years of natural selection) they're not pushed more, they just listen and take seriously the pushing - judgmental and safer going with the group feel important. Significant number of boys are reckless, in their own world, trying to outdo (compete), experimental warrior (100,000 years of natural selection) because men are disposable based on evolution, if 10 men take risks and 1 man's risk pays off, many in the tribe benifit (in its most historic primative forms; hunting and war). Significant numbers of women default to low risk to maintain and grow (heal), men default to high risk high reward (kill or be killed).
You don't have to like it or think it's good, we are the sum of mankind today and evolution is slow. And a part of mankind is you can choose to do something different to your evolution (but few do).
Intuition has an very unemotional feel to it.
Supercharged feels aren't intuition, it's fear in disguise.
A gut feeling does not feel like a huge emotional charge.
