For the future drummer in me

 https://youtu.be/kd_yiSqiTQs

One truth can be right and wrong

 "Out of sight, out of mind"

"Distance makes the heart grow fonder"

I've always enjoyed the mirror of wisdom...

It's understanding the why and the neuance that can make both counterpoints correct.

"Absence extinguishes minor passions but increases great ones. Just as the wind can blow out a candle but fan a fire."

Names aren't important right? Right?!

Names are funny because they actually don't matter that much, like a bad name isn't bad, a good name isn't good... BUT a great name is great, it does something very special. Most names aren't special, the content is and that makes the name great. A great name doesn't make the content good. But a great name can do what's called a "pattern interruptor" which means our system 1 unconcious thinking is shut off for a moment while our system 2 conciseness pays attention due to its perceived importance or relevance.

Wowowow Everything in 2.

Wowowow

ALL of arguments, disagreements and judgement come from

1 Short hand thoughts (a feeling of knowing what's what)

and 

2 You're different to me (and I don't get it or I don't like it).

Loss.

 Grief is a mystery solved daily